who's SANE?

who's SANE?http://whoissane.blog.co.uk/en-EUhourly82000-01-01T12:00+00:00who's SANE?http://whoissane.blog.co.uk/http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/93/276e15c4b3df7fbe83cedc5291902f_160x200.jpgWho's SANE?http://whoissane.blog.co.uk/2007/12/27/who_s_sane~3496220/2007-12-27T17:22:13+01:00 Few days back my mom told me to keep distance from Dev. when i asked her why??????She told me,"because i think he is a psycho." I was like "hehhhhhh? in what sense do you think that he was a psychopath" and started to defend him telling her that he never even touched me like other boys of his age do. She told me that am the reason she want to me to keep distance from him. She further explained me," he, now, has control over you. He tells you about his family and all just to take sympathy from you. And you blindly believe whatever he says." We both are in same grade and you can say that we are kind of best friends though I have many other girls’ friend with whom I have strong bonding but I don't believe them blindly as I have been ditched by many of my friends whom I have trusted from childhood. There are two reasons I never had long lasting friendship. first is that my father is in army so I have to keep on moving from place to place from time to time. As a result I never get enough time to make, what is called, The Strong Bond of Friendship. Second reason is that as I, myself, being a girl I know how much girls like to back bitch. So even if we (me and my friends) in front of each other say,” We are the best friends and we never back bitch about each other." I knew that they must be back bitching about me in my back because many from my group used to back bitch about other girls from our group only so it was obvious that they would back bitch about me in my back. But when I met Dev in this grade then only I felt as if there was really someone whom I could trust completely. When our school session started we were not friends. He knew that there was a girl named Eshita and i knew that there was a boy named Dev. It was only in the mid session that we both came to know each other slowly. Gradually he told me about himself and his family. If you had listen to his talk you would automatically come to know how much he loved his family especially his mom. I have heard from many of students saying that either their parents are not good or they are partial to them. But whenever i tried to instigate him to tell me something about his parents, he never uttered a single word against his parents. Even when i used to bitch about somebody and ask his opinions about that person (we almost had same friends group in the school), he never said anything bad for any person no matter how bad that person was with others. He always saw good sight of that person. Whenever i used to tell something personal to my friends after few days i would hear the same thing from somebody else that’s not in our group but till now whatever i had told him i have not heard that thing from outside source. Moreover he always makes me laugh doing silly things whenever I’m down. Though he is a bad guy or a bad student in front of teachers and some of the pupil he is the only person on whom i could trust and tell him anything even those things which i think thousand times before telling it to anybody. You find somebody like this and then one day someone tells you to stop talking to that person or to keep distance, what would you do. Would you listen to the experienced person (here mom) or you would listen to your heart. I know that a person who tries to hurt somebody for no reason or is always lost in his own world or talk’s nonsense is insane but i never knew that a person, who understands you, loves his family and tells you about them are also insane. So the person in first case is insane we know and now a person who supports you and loves everybody is also insane. Then it means that you, me and everybody in this world is insane. Just there are few who don’t care if people call them insane but then there are we, the hypocrites, who act as if they are insane. <a href="http://whoissane.blog.co.uk/2007/12/27/who_s_sane~3496220/#comments">Comments</a> Few days back my mom told me to keep distance from Dev. when i asked her why??????She told me,"because i think he is a psycho." I was like "hehhhhhh? in what sense do you think that he was a psychopath" and started to defend him telling her that he never even touched me like other boys of his age do. She told me that am the reason she want to me to keep distance from him. She further explained me," he, now, has control over you. He tells you about his family and all just to take sympathy from you. And you blindly believe whatever he says."

We both are in same grade and you can say that we are kind of best friends though I have many other girls’ friend with whom I have strong bonding but I don't believe them blindly as I have been ditched by many of my friends whom I have trusted from childhood. There are two reasons I never had long lasting friendship. first is that my father is in army so I have to keep on moving from place to place from time to time. As a result I never get enough time to make, what is called, The Strong Bond of Friendship. Second reason is that as I, myself, being a girl I know how much girls like to back bitch. So even if we (me and my friends) in front of each other say,” We are the best friends and we never back bitch about each other." I knew that they must be back bitching about me in my back because many from my group used to back bitch about other girls from our group only so it was obvious that they would back bitch about me in my back.

But when I met Dev in this grade then only I felt as if there was really someone whom I could trust completely. When our school session started we were not friends. He knew that there was a girl named Eshita and i knew that there was a boy named Dev. It was only in the mid session that we both came to know each other slowly. Gradually he told me about himself and his family. If you had listen to his talk you would automatically come to know how much he loved his family especially his mom. I have heard from many of students saying that either their parents are not good or they are partial to them. But whenever i tried to instigate him to tell me something about his parents, he never uttered a single word against his parents. Even when i used to bitch about somebody and ask his opinions about that person (we almost had same friends group in the school), he never said anything bad for any person no matter how bad that person was with others. He always saw good sight of that person. Whenever i used to tell something personal to my friends after few days i would hear the same thing from somebody else that’s not in our group but till now whatever i had told him i have not heard that thing from outside source. Moreover he always makes me laugh doing silly things whenever I’m down. Though he is a bad guy or a bad student in front of teachers and some of the pupil he is the only person on whom i could trust and tell him anything even those things which i think thousand times before telling it to anybody.

You find somebody like this and then one day someone tells you to stop talking to that person or to keep distance, what would you do. Would you listen to the experienced person (here mom) or you would listen to your heart.

I know that a person who tries to hurt somebody for no reason or is always lost in his own world or talk’s nonsense is insane but i never knew that a person, who understands you, loves his family and tells you about them are also insane. So the person in first case is insane we know and now a person who supports you and loves everybody is also insane. Then it means that you, me and everybody in this world is insane. Just there are few who don’t care if people call them insane but then there are we, the hypocrites, who act as if they are insane.

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